That's funny, I just said the older lady I like was just another normal person, which is a compliment, but yes everyone can be special, I suppose hopefully.  If someone wasn't in that way, we've some mystery.  Maybe, people believe there is no one else as unique as her and they must have her.  However, in the end, that hope may run out.  Then, what happens?  Who would different people best like and without any fighting?  Any thought out there?  Any specimen of intelligence?